Aug 23, 2022
In Welcome to the Forum
Hi all, Firstly, it's incredible to find a place for men to release their thoughts and experiences around miscarriages. Following our fourth and arguably most traumatic (if that's not too strong a word) miscarriage in January 2021, I have found myself struggling with another wave of grief, despite having moved on and accepted our experience for over a year. Like many who feel they need to be a pillar of strength for their partners, I'd imagine this is a common enough delayed reaction. But it leaves you in a place whereby it is difficult to set time aside to re-process the loss or have others understand why you're bringing it up after so much time has passed. I'm curious how others can relate to this and what you did when faced with the feeling of "I can't take off work now; it happened so long ago".