I didn't know I was going to be an actual dad instead of a step dad, both me and my wife didn't know until I had to take to hospital when we found out that we lost our baby. We never got the chance to get ready on for being parents as it was like within the same split second we found out it was ripped away from us. I'm scared to keep trying in case it keeps happening
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Hey Daniel,
I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. It must have been such a shock to find out and then it to be ripped away from you, and also not to get the chance to enjoy the feeling of looking forward to parenthood together.
Look after yourselves - 10 weeks does not feel a long time to come to terms with what you;ve both been through.
My partner and I are also in that stage of trying though also living in fear it might happen again. We realise it's important to keep talking to each other through whatever we are going through... though that's definitely a challenge for me to access feelings around all this. take care, Will