Hey man, thanks for the post. I'm new here and I, too, think this is a great idea for a website. My wife recently miscarried and a few months after her mother passed to boot. It has been extremely difficult and we have a 18 month old boy, who needs our 100%. I can relate to diving into DIY projects around the house, and I also feel that is how I am "dealing" or "coping" with the loss that I feel. I also feel that I need to be there and be strong for her, but I am grieving myself and am not quite sure what to do with these feelings. So, I stay busy.