Hi there.. I’m so sorry for your loss. I too am dealing with a recent miscarriage as well and the feeling of loss and frustration and helplessness and impatience are very familiar to me.
I just want things to get better, to not feel so helpless and numb. I’ve gone past the point of numbness and have been crying daily over the loss of our daughter. keep being there for K just like I am for my partner. Even if it’s just a few words of affirmation and love and support, it will mean a lot to her.
as far as everything else goes, it’s hard to say when I’m in this numb place myself but it was nice to find refuge in this community. I’d be lying if I said your story didn’t make me emotional because that feeling is ever too real. I’m so sorry. You have a solid support circle it seems… you might need to lean on them for a bit.
I hope things start turning around soon for you guys. You sound like a strong healthy loving couple. The cliche of “time heals all wounds” has been reiterated to me plenty of times.
im sorry I didn’t offer much of an answer or anything. I am in therapy right now and got on medication to help for now and hoping it starts to make things turn around for the better. Staying as positive as humanly possible.
let’s hope we all get through this as stronger more courageous people
lots of love
