That pause just before they tell you
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Jan 12, 2022
Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife. My wife and I faced the pause yesterday and I have never been more devastated in my life. I didn't realize at first that something was wrong, that the ultrasound was showing me my child that was. My wife knew and grabbed my hand to comfort me even though I didn't know that. Moments later the came the pause and it hurt like nothing I've ever experienced.