This is my life story! We lost our 4th child a few weeks back at 16 weeks so hard :( we had miscarriages in the past but this one is so much harder as my wife had to deliver the baby and I could see him and hold him.

Thanks for the link to the article Chris this looks really good. I shall give this a read and see what it’s about.

Hi We told lots of people at twelve weeks and everything was ok yet we lost our little boy Rowan at 16 weeks. When we found out about the miscarriage we had to tell a lot of family and friends as well as work colleagues etc which was hard as it was sharing sad news. A lot of miscarriages happen before twelve weeks so I understand why people are reluctant to tell lots of people before then. I didn’t enjoy telling people t

Hi i would just tell him it’s a private matter and I don’t want to discuss it. You have every right not to say anything.

Hi i would just tell him it’s a private matter and I don’t want to discuss it. You have every right not to say anything.

Hi Eamonn Have to agree with what Chris has said. We lost our baby when my wife was 16 weeks pregnant. It easily has been the worst month and a half of my life. My wife had to give birth to our Unborn child and she had to get rushed to emergency surgery for a two litre blood transfusion and four litres of plasma she could easily have died that day. I had to hold my unborn child Rowan not knowing what to do I felt so helpless and alone for that time was so hard to process. We have had the funeral since.

Hi Eamonn Have to agree with what Chris has said. We lost our baby when my wife was 16 weeks pregnant. It easily has been the worst month and a half of my life. My wife had to give birth to our Unborn child and she had to get rushed to emergency surgery for a two litre blood transfusion and four litres of plasma she could easily have died that day. I had to hold my unborn child Rowan not knowing what to do I felt so helpless and alone for that time was so hard to process. We have had the funeral since.