Thanks for your comments Joe. Don't be hard on yourself about what you could have done differently then, we are all learning as we go, and you have to keep looking forward, not back. All the best, Kevin

Thanks for taking the time to reply Chris, and I wish you the best too. As my experiences are further in the past I can definitely say to you that time is a healer too. You are right though, I do feel better for having put my thoughts down in writing and I think in that regard this website can be a really great thing. You've done a great job in setting this up, I hope others can feel the benefit from it too. Kevin