I hope I'm not the only one that struggles with this. My wife and I have suffered 3 miscarriages. 2 while being assisted with IUI's and one unexpectedly on our own. I know she feels broken. I try to be there for her but I have no words to say to ease her pain. It makes me feel useless as a husband and as a man. Also, we grieve the loss of our babies differently. She remembers every date, time, and circumstance to a tee. I chose to block pit these painful details. It's how I cope. But every year, It leaves her feeling alone. Definitely not my intentions. Any advice from the group is appreciated.