I could write all day about the details, about what’s happened and what was said and how I cried to tell my parents and friends, but nothing even comes anywhere near the sadness of the pause the pause that happens when your given bad news, the pause that any loving human gives before they tell you bad news, the pause that when you look into your wife’s eyes you both know, a pause that tells you everything. The pause that means your dream as just stopped,
beside myself with grief today, sending love and good energy to anyone out there who read this.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife. My wife and I faced the pause yesterday and I have never been more devastated in my life. I didn't realize at first that something was wrong, that the ultrasound was showing me my child that was. My wife knew and grabbed my hand to comfort me even though I didn't know that. Moments later the came the pause and it hurt like nothing I've ever experienced.