Yesterday my wife and I found out that she was having a miscarriage. Last week we heard the heartbeat for the first time and now it’s over in an instant it feels. I’m trying to stay strong for her but I feel so lost and numb at this time. This is her 2nd miscarriage, the last being December of 2020. I’m struggling with being her rock she needs me to be and also dealing with the pain and sadness myself. I have spoken to my counselor about how I feel and she recommended finding others who have faced the same in their lives. How do you make it past the lost empty feeling after a miscarriage? I know this is neither my wife or my fault , but it doesn’t make it hurt less. Like I said I’m just feeling lost. Thank you for your time.