I really just wanted to say hello at this stage. My name is Jonathan, I'm 50 years old and, in the past, my wife experienced 4 miscarriages (one before our son was born and 3 before our daughter was born). I'm currently studying to become a counsellor and I found this site through reading a post on the Counselling Tutor Facebook Group.
While I have memories of the dark times of the miscarriages, they're a bit jumbled up now (the last was about 6 years ago). If I'm honest, I don't feel any trauma as a result of them and I just feel lucky that we have two healthy, happy children now. Really I'm here to offer support, if I can. I'll dip my toes into the forum posts very soon.